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“But
the Holy Spirit produces this kind of fruit in our lives: love, joy, peace,
patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness, and
self-control. There is no law against these things!” - Galatians 5:22-23
AAAHHH…. the brand of the Lone Star
state. I won’t deny it, I’m a proud
Texas girl through and through. As I’ve
met people from around the country and even the world, I’ve noticed an interesting
reaction when I tell them I’m a Texas girl, “born and raised”. Some just seem to think “Uh, that’s
great.” And move on to the next subject.
Others seem a little surprised and even more surprised when they find
out I’m actually a 4th or 5th generation Texan. When I go out of state or country, people
seem to make a connection of “I thought you were a Texan” as we chat. You would think it could be the accent that’s
the dead giveaway. However, I have much less of an accent than
most of my family members. (Although it
does become stronger when we’re together.)
But it seems to be more of a collection of character traits that mark a
Texan than an accent, I have discovered.
There is a sense that people get when they meet a Texan vs. what they
think they know about a Texan. There is
just something that is expected to be “different” about us.
It
could be said that to know a Texan is to love a Texan. (Disclaimer:
As with any family, there are….challenges to this statement.) I can’t always pinpoint what it is, but I
can say that my daddy would be that example of a good Texan. He was a 6’4” teddy bear of a real man’s
man. He loved God, he loved his country and he loved his family. He could build a house, plant a big
garden and brand a herd of cattle all in a day’s work. (Okay, perhaps over a weekend.) He was kind and gentle, but do NOT mess with his
family. He wasn’t arrogant, but he was
the one everyone sought out for help and advice. His wisdom was legendary. You would come to him and pour out your
problem and he would just listen. After
you were done he would draw a deep breath in and say in his deep, baritone
Texas accent, “Weeeelll, I’ll tell ya….”
Followed by very wise and Godly advice.
Whether you took it or not would be up to you, but you knew he would
still love you either way. He also loved
my momma deeply until the day the Lord took him home. He was truly a man of great character.
Come to think of it, the character traits
in the verse above pretty much describe my daddy to a tee. Hhhmmm,
I suppose that while you might think that he was just a great example of
what a Texan should be, which he was, he was more of an example of what a Godly
man should be. Now, he would be the
first to tell you that he was not a perfect man, but any credit given to him
would be attributed quickly to what God did in his life. Because of his and my mother’s love for God,
it was easy for me to come to know and accept Christ into my own life. I’m so thankful for such a great example of
someone who allowed the Holy Spirit to develop those spiritual fruits in his
own life. He was known by them. It really was like a brand on his heart. I didn’t realize it at the time, but that
example would hugely influence my own relationship with God. I wanted that brand too.
I’m so grateful for the brand my daddy had and taught me of. You see, while he was a great example of those character traits and taught me about them, he couldn’t actually give them to me as part of my genetic makeup. I had to make the choice to accept that gift of Christ in my own life, just like daddy did. And each day I ask God to work in me so that His brand on my heart will shine, just like daddy did. Daddy left a legacy to his family. It inspires me every day to continue that legacy. Not only with my own family but with others I meet too. I want to share what I’ve been given so others can experience life change through Christ too – I want to share the brand. I can’t help but think what might happen if each of us would allow God to work in us so His brand shines. Imagine the life change we would experience. Imagine the influence we could possibly have in the lives of others. Sure, I’m a really proud Texan who is proud of her heritage, but the brand on my heart is not a lone star, it’s a cross. I pray it shines brightly and that yours will too.